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Alex here
20 yrs on earth
since 30th June 1988
alexslowking@hotmail.com

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"The one true treasure is self purpose."- Alex Lim

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+:Love
+:Big clear crystal ball
+:Chelsea Flower Show
+:Singapore Garden Festival
+:More control over myself

Monday, June 26, 2006

Ideals That Can Never Be Fulfilled

The Introducing Social Psychology module is ok, but loads of remembering, and must do the GL hit and run thingys again. But worse now I will be graded for it.
Below are 3 points about me, one of which is false, the other 2 is true. Guess?
1) I am the top student in y course twice in the row
2) I'm claustrophobic
3) I love red colour
Happy guessing!

I've just discovered something.
People are ever on the perpectual state of being unhappy. Why? Because they have expectations and dreams to fulfill and accomplish. What comes after they accomplish these things? They start to find other dreams to accomplish, and start being all unhappy again. Does this mean no matter what you give to a man, he will never be happy, cause he will always find something that will make him unhappy?
Now I know why monks are ever happy. Because they try their best to have no expectations, no obligations and no wish to accomplish. With that they recieve true happiness.
But I guess, for us, the non monkish people, there is but one way to be happy, and that is to count each and every blessing that Fate has given to you, and appreciate that. Yes, I may not have the love of my life, and I maybe tormented by my inner self, and I am seriously in need of more time, but I've recieved $2000 from a very generous man through a scholarship (a letter will be given to him soon to show my gratitude), I've good friends, and I've the pokegang who cares about me. Life is not so bleak after all.
Having dreams are not bad. It is natural to have dreams and live a blessed life to fulfill them. Identifying with yourself is the most important thing. Know that dreams are not part of you. You work towards them, not for them. Do not be controlled by your dreams. If you do,

You'll be screwed.


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