If you are getting married, please also send your grandmother to the wedding area, not only sending her an invitation and wait for her to come herself. Its really unfillial. The mother also... never do it (invite the grandmother properly) for her daughter...

The wedding is really nice. They place this super CUTE key chain plushie on the setting on the table!!! Than got girl one and boy one. I've taken some photos, but it's with my bro right now. So can only show later.

Weddings are so funny. They toast also must say out 'the first toast is for the husband, the toast is for the wife, may they be lovers for all time...' this kind of corny thing. But it can be very sweet.

The husband is a teacher, and man, does he speaks like a teacher. You know how a teacher sounds, and he sounds exactly like that when he speak to us (the crowd). And he surprised the bride by singing to her, singing 'Qing Fei De Yi' to her...
Yeah it sound simple, but he's not proficient in chinese. So thats what make it very sweet.

Yeah there are people asking me 'where is your girlfriend huh?' And what can I answer? Blah.

The Soka lecture enlightened me. How can someone who has accomplished so much be inadept to speak in public? But then I realised, the being bad at something doesn't mean that you are a bad person. It only means you are untrained or not proficient in that area, not that you are crap. You being bad at something doesn't mean you cannot succeed. Everyone has a potential to succeed.

And than I realised some simple truths. A long car ride really gets your mind churning.

Telling someone about your life. Its dumb. Going around telling people how sad you are... if its me than its ok. But to the 99.99% of the world... telling your sad stories can really put potential boyfriends/girlfriends off.

No... the silent-against-the-world type is not IN anymore (unless of course you are totally hot. Than its different.)

There is a time for everything.

Quitting a bad habit is harder than getting a new habit.

And there's more. But I'm not listing them. The funny and entertaining Alex normally disappears after a long day of work (a.k.a doing nothing interesting like going for a wedding and a boring but informative lecture). That aspect of Alex isn't really coming in to blog anytime soon, because I'm struggling with my inner demons, cause I am now putting my attention on something that I've done but I feel I should not have done but I've done it anyways. The thing is, some people feel its wrong (including me) and I feel its wrong but to some other people its nothing wrong. So there a inner dilemna.

Having a BBQ tommorrow. We see how it goes yeah? (I seem to say yeah like a million times nowadays. Don't know why.)